Shalom,

We learn that every child chooses its parents and knows beforehand it’s life scenario as it’s chosen by the soul of the child.  Even more amazing is that the perfect measure for measure divine judgment is that the abusive or harmful person returns to. BE the victim of the very harm they caused in a earlier incarnations.

Essentially there is cause and effect  just we don’t see it because we’re often limited to a small percentage of the bigger picture.

As for knowing your mission in life always try to increase the amount of positive action and sharing with your local community.  Eventually a clear opportunity to do some greater work in terms of your life mission will become clearer.

Best Wishes——

Yosef Karpman