Persauding parent’s to go to Yeshiva In Israel

August 20, 2016 at 8:13 PM
jonathan josef asked 8 years ago
Hello rabbi this is Jonathan Josef I wanted to ask for a favor, I'm in the process of persuading my parents to go to yeshiva in Israel this year...and it's going to be rough do you think you can email me a little message from you not big like 3-4 sentences like saying anything to my parents that would help..like their reward or the amazing benefits..etc
1 Answers
Rabbi Alon Anava answered 8 years ago
Shalom, Below are a few very good reasons why they should be happy to send you to Yeshivah 1. Investment: This could be the biggest investment you’ll ever make You’re bright enough to know that your future’s not made of money alone. The biggest investment you’ll ever make in your life is the person you’ll marry. Out of marriage comes a home, a family, eternity. You need to build a portfolio that can get you a great spouse and build a beautiful family. Add those yeshiva months to your portfolio, and you’ve moved up several notches on the Jewish marriage market. 2. Skills: You can pick up the basic skills for a lifetime One semester isn’t enough time to learn one-zillionth of what you want to know, but it’s long enough to get you some basic skills so you can continue back home. You’ll know what books contain what, how to open a Talmud and get an idea of what’s flying in there, what sort of problems require an expert rabbi to solve, and how to dazzle your guests with some fascinating words of Torah at your Shabbat table. You’ll have some of the classic answers to fundamental questions under your belt, and you’ll know where to look for more. Perhaps even more important: You’ll have the tools, the learning and perhaps even the wisdom to help you get through those bumps and crashes so unavoidable in life. 3. Family: Get respect from your kids You may not have even started thinking about it, but you likely will want to send your kids to a school where they’ll learn Torah at least half a day. When they have a question or need help with homework, guess who they’re going to ask? And if they see their parents enjoy learning Torah, guess how that will influence their attitude to school? 4. Wealth: Cash in on your inheritance Jews have been bantering about ideas in yeshivas for thousands of years. And Jews are bright people. Over these millennia of study, debate, creativity and more debate, we’ve built a ginormous structure, a palace of wisdom, ideas, practical guidance and approaches to knowledge. It’s a magnificent blend of harmonies, an intricate web of wisdom, an edifice of incomparable beauty—and the entire estate is yours, just waiting for you to come and pick up the keys. Without ever entering a yeshiva, you could still enter your estate. You might make it into the front, and even explore around a little. But if you want to feel at home in your rightful home, you need that immersive yeshiva experience. 5. Inspiration: Get the blast of a lifetime Imagine yourself in an environment where everyone around you is aflame with the fire of Torah. Torah is alive. You can dissect an animal, a philosopher, a poem or a book, an atomic particle or a mathematical equation—and all have one thing in common: when dissected, they are dead. No one comes out of a philosophy class singing and dancing. But they do when they dissect Torah. Because Torah is alive—every cell of it, no matter how you cut it. Imagine Shabbat in an environment where Torah is the driving force of life. You can’t. You have to be there. But years down the road, when you’re desperate for that inspiration to keep you going, you’ll close your eyes and see yourself back there again. From that experience you’ll draw eternal life. 6. And most important, the refinement of character, good qualities, guide to live your life honest, reliable, loyal, sincere and all these good qualities are gained while learning Torah in a holy environment. Needless to say that in the spiritual level, the reward a parent reaps from his/her son learning Torah is immeasurable and the abundance of blessing is beyond grasp Wishing you great success Rabbi Alon Anava